I will admit that the feeling of being unimportant is a weird sensation. It can be paralyzing. I wish I could say to myself, “This is just an abstract thought that I have, and it won’t affect your life.” But it does. I don’t know why I feel that way. It’s not that I don’t care, it’s just that I don’t have any idea what the right thing is to do.
The feeling of being non-existent, of being a nothing, is one we all know but that we often don’t pay attention to. So much of life comes down to us saying yes, and then doing the opposite. When you say no, it becomes a conscious decision. And you can’t say no a lot of the time, so that really is what most people do.
In my opinion, this is a good example of the “it isn’t what you are, it’s who you are” phenomenon. I believe this is a common theme for many people. When you say yes you often think you are actually saying yes in the context of the situation you are in, but you are really saying yes to your ego. That’s what it comes down to.
People are often unable to see themselves as they are because they’re so caught up in their egos that they don’t care about how good or bad things actually are. Or, they are so caught up in their egos that they don’t see themselves as they are because they refuse to see themselves as they are.
The thing is, we can’t know the real you until we first see the things, people, places you have in common. If we know that we have a similar story to the one that has been written for us, we can see ourselves as we are. We know that we have feelings, we know that we care, and we know that we are real. There are times when we even believe it.
People have always been able to see themselves as they are, in their most basic form. It is only in the last hundred years that we have developed the ability to see, or become, something more. This gives us the ability to see ourselves as anything other than what we are in the first place. We are not what we are because we are not.
You are not what you think you are. You are not who you think you are. You are not what you think you are because you are not. You are who you are and you are not.
The problem with this is that we have become so used to being who we are that we become oblivious to our own thoughts, feelings, and actions. This is the feeling that we can’t help but to think we don’t care, but really, we are not a person. We are an individual. We are.
You are NOT. You are an individual. No one is perfect. No one is a “perfect” person. No one is a “real” person. Humans are not perfect. Humans can be flawed. Humans can make mistakes. Humans are flawed. We try to be the person that we think we should be, but we’re not.
Being the person that you think you should be is just as flawed as being the person that you truly are. We all have a few imperfections, but it’s up to us to accept these flaws and figure out how best to use them to our advantage.