I would much rather be naked than sitting on a couch eating pizza! It’s fun to be able to wear a pair of shorts and a top without having to deal with the extra calories, but there is also something inherently sexy about being naked.
I have nothing against nudity. I have always had a thing for body-hugging t-shirts, skinny jeans, and chunky shoes. The problem is that the world doesn’t always make sense when I try to wear something different. For example, if I’m in the mood to watch a movie, and I see a woman in a bikini, I’m not going to take her as a date. I’m going to consider her a friend.
The thing is that there is a certain image we project in order to be accepted by the general population. Whether it be gender, ethnicity, age, or appearance. In order to be accepted as a person in society, we also need to be accepted by the other people.
I get that. But it can be hard to get your mind around when theres loads of people around you who dont share your outlook. It just seems weird to me, because it is.
I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase “the golden rule of dating”. The concept is pretty simple. If you date someone, you have to accept that they are the exact same or similar to the person you are dating. If you’re not, you’re not a good (or even tolerable) partner. But there can be exceptions when it comes to physical appearance.
Just as a matter of fact, the same goes for physical appearance. People find it hard to understand what it is that makes you different from someone else, but it is something that is in fact there. So if your height makes you so different from someone else that you can’t marry them, and you’re also tall and skinny, this is something that you can work on in order to be more likable. But not to the point of being likeable to everyone.
The most common example of physical appearance is someone who is a physical product of their environment, which is why it’s so hard to get a sense that their appearance is somehow “the same” from the same object. It’s not that people aren’t physically different, but the fact that their appearance is somehow different from another’s is so important.
The difference between people is that they arent just physically different, they are also psychologically different. In order to be considered “likable” one needs to be able to deal with the fact that they have that same appearance no matter if theyre wearing a tux or a bathrobe. The key is to be aware of the fact that youll always be looking at yourself from a different point of view, even if youre not wearing the same clothes.
At the very least, it would be great to have some options in this regard. A lot of the stuff we do with our bodies or our lifestyles is pretty self-inflicted and we tend to end up with different bodies at different times. If you want to change your body, do it for a while and see what happens (some people do, but that is a personal choice).
I feel like a lot of our choices and behaviors are influenced by our physical appearance, so it is important to pay attention to what that looks like. Of course, there are lots of ways to make your body look better, including exercise and diet. However, you may get a better result without a lot of effort. For example, a lot of people wear a lot of makeup to look better.
