People don t care about you, you don t care about yourself.
These are all common and self-evident thoughts you’ll probably hear from anyone who’s ever been involved with social media. On one hand, I find it hard to believe that people want to read and interact with me. But on the other hand, I don’t know what the alternative is. I’m not an expert in social media, but I do remember reading about people feeling disconnected from the real world in the 90s and I don’t think I was alone in that.
People are always going to think that their opinion or actions don t matter to others. You might think that your opinion will matter, but I believe that there is a certain level of disconnect when we make our own decisions. If you have no idea what your doing because you dont realize the consequences, you wont be able to make decisions that affect others. If you have no idea what you are doing, you are only as good as your worst decision.
If you have no idea what you are doing, then you are only as good as your worst decision. There is a difference between not knowing what you t are doing and not caring. When you know what you are doing, you can make decisions that affect others. When you don t care, you have no idea what you are doing and you will only be as good as you are worst decision.
The problem is that when we don t care about others we don t even know who we are.
Self-awareness is usually a sign of maturity. While it is true that we are often not aware of the ways in which we may harm others, that doesn t mean that we will always do so. That doesn t mean we are bad people. We are just human. We are so incredibly complicated. And it is so incredibly hard to see how we have been hurt or how we can be better.
One of my favorite quotes about the way we use language is by the famous writer, Ernest Hemingway, who said: “I have never been made to feel that I am worthless. In fact I have never been made to feel that I have been a failure. I have never, because of my personal history, been made to feel that I am an inferior.
When we say we are not interested in anyone else’s opinions on who we are or who we are not, when we don t care about anyone else’s opinions on why we don t like us, or if we like anyone at all, then we are setting ourselves up for disappointment. We can be so easily deceived into thinking that we really care about others if we don t really.
That’s why we have to learn to care about others. We can’t just go around treating people like we don t care about them. We have to take care of ourselves. That means taking care of our own bodies. We need to practice mindful eating. We need to learn to do the things that cause us to feel good. We need to find ways to help our loved ones with whatever problems we have. We need to be there for each other when we would like.
We learn from our mistakes (a.k.a. those instances when we made a mistake that makes us feel bad about ourselves). We learn from the mistakes that others make us feel bad about ourselves. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn from our mistakes.