I am not suggesting that your friends or co-workers should call you names, I’m saying that if you are going to act like a jerk, you should probably act like a jerk. I know lots of people who are very open about their flaws and still are very good people. I am, however, very disappointed that we live in a society where people are so quick to call others out for their flaws.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is getting caught up in trying to be the biggest jerk in the room. People who are constantly being called “losers” and “the enemy” are often the first to act up and make the biggest mistakes and thus the biggest targets of bullying or cruelty.
It’s true that most people are a bit insecure about themselves. People who are afraid of being called a fool are often the ones who get bullied or bullied themselves. People who are insecure about themselves don’t want others to call them out on their flaws, but if their flaw is their weak spot, they’re going to act up and prove that they have it because they’re afraid they might fail to be the biggest jerk in the room.
You know what’s worse? When you think you’re better than someone and they think you’re inferior and they’re going to tell you so. It’s called being sensitive, and it’s very very common.
People sometimes just plain get lazy. A lot of it is because they don’t realize that they are insecure about themselves, or they simply don’t want to be bullied, or they’re afraid they might fail to be the biggest jerk in the room. Sometimes its hard to tell how insecure you really are until someone takes a look at your face when youve been being a jerk or a bully.
That said, a lot of people do take a look at your face when youve been being a jerk or a bully. It’s a very important sign. Your face shows you are sensitive and insecure about yourself, and that is a very good thing. However, its a pretty dangerous sign when a person is really insecure about who they are. If you are insecure about who you are, you can really hurt yourself, or you can hurt a loved one.
That is a lot of negative feedback that we get on a regular basis, and it’s easy to be defensive when you’re constantly being called names. It’s hard to take yourself more seriously. It’s hard to see a positive outlook in a negative mind. It can make you feel like you’re a bad person.
I can imagine that there are some people who do name calling out of insecurity, but that kind of feeling is something that is very common. And it is exactly the same for a lot of people when they feel they are a little insecure about where they fit in the world. It is easy to get stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts and start to be defensive about who you are, and then you can start to hurt yourself.
Sometimes people get so focused on the negative that they can’t even see the positive, and end up hurting themselves. This is because negative people don’t see the positive things around them; they act on their negative thoughts. The opposite of this is positivity.
Name-calling is an extremely self-destructive behavior. It is very easy to get stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts. If you think, “I dont have to be nice to people,” you are going to end up hurting yourself. It is a self-preserving behavior that causes you to avoid opportunities to act in the best way that you can.