As a person who has tried the whole “you should just jerk off for a month and then you’ll never get it back” thing, I can say with a little bit of certainty that I have not made it easy for myself in the same way that I wouldn’t have gotten it done if I’d just watched some porn. It sounds cliché, but it is true.
It can be incredibly frustrating to have to “fuck yourself” to a certain point. This often occurs when you have to deal with a woman who doesn’t respect your boundaries. I’m not talking about just having a physical body, but I am talking about a person. You might be able to control your body, but you can’t control her response time.
I was recently able to talk to someone about this problem, and it was so difficult to have this discussion at the time for I was trying to be as patient as I could. I told them, “I’m not talking about just a physical pleasure, I’m talking about a person. A person that respects your boundaries. That doesn’t need to be sexual, but you need to respect her boundaries.
I was talking about a person or person that respects your boundaries. Or at least respects them to your own mind. It’s not about sex, it’s about the fact that you’re the only one around who is able to say that to you.
When I talk about boundaries, I mean the physical boundaries you have to keep in mind as well. The ones you can’t see, touch, or hear through your own eyes or ears. The ones that are visible to anyone else because they’re not always “right.
If youre still not in a place where you can say, “Yes, I respect that! I don’t want to hear it from anyone else, but I do,” then youre also not in a place to be able to say, “No, I respect that! It’s okay, but I don’t want to hear it from anyone else.
The problem with boundaries is that they can be so blurry they can be hard to maintain. If you can’t see and hear someone and still respect that they respect you, then you may be in a place that doesn’t allow for that. But as long as that is your feeling, then your place is in a place that allows that.
No, its not. If I am a jackass to you, I am that jackass because I am not in a place that allows me to say, “Oh, I respect your boundaries. Youre okay with me, its okay with me.” Because you dont respect my boundaries, I respect yours.
For many reasons, I’m not sure why they are allowed to be jerks to you. Its because they are not the same as you in every way. They may not care about you or be able to express how they feel. But that doesnt mean they don’t care about you. After all, you probably think they are jerks themselves, because they do show that they are more concerned with themselves than you are.
The fact is that jerking off to a person is the most intimate kind of masturbation. It does not involve the use of the penis. It is simply a person taking the piss. It is one of life’s simplest pleasures. But it is also one of the most frustrating because it is so unconfident. As far as I’m concerned, it is a matter of self-acceptance and self-acceptance is the first step to self-acceptance.