There are emotions that we carry so deep that they’re difficult to even feel. A past heartbreak can make us feel so vulnerable or weak that we can’t even muster the energy to care about ourselves. We also feel a lot of shame and regret about our actions and relationships, but are afraid to see those feelings because they would be unbearable.
The problem is that our emotions are so deep that we feel too much of ourselves. We cant even process all the feelings we have for our partner or friends. We feel too much pain, and the more pain we feel the more hurt we feel.
A recent study from researchers at the University of Utah found that when people are in a negative emotion state for too long our brains can be flooded with more of that emotion. This is the state that people go into when they feel too vulnerable, or when they’re feeling overwhelmed. The researchers also found that the more emotional people are, the scarier and more distressing they feel. The more they can process the more they can regulate themselves. The more they can process the more they can regulate themselves.
Our brains are designed to be our most resilient and least vulnerable. Most of the time, we’re constantly processing and responding to situations in ways that are adaptive. A lot of times, we get stuck in a negative emotion state for too long and we can end up feeling very vulnerable. When we are vulnerable, our brain gets flooded with more of that emotional state. This in turn can make us feel overwhelmed and less able to regulate ourselves. This is why emotional scars are so hard to heal.
The more traumatic the experience, the harder it is to repair. And the more you have to take care of, the scarier it’s going to be. But the scarier it is, the more people will want to get rid of the relationship to begin with.
The scars are all around us. It’s just a matter of knowing when to let them go.
I see some people like to blame the scars on their past relationships, but that’s ridiculous. People who were hurt by a past relationship tend to have scarier scars than those who had no past relationships at all! It’s just that traumatic. Just as you wouldn’t ever want to tell someone you had a broken heart, you shouldn’t tell someone you had a painful relationship.
The truth is that those scars aren’t really scar tissue. They are the result of emotions, memories, and experiences that cause our skin to turn red. The scarring from a relationship is like a physical wound. And you don’t want to tell anyone you have a scar like that because you’ll feel like you have a secret you have to protect. That’s a dangerous thing to do.
A lot of people find it difficult to tell people that they have a scar-filled relationship because they dont have the words to explain it. I know because it is what I did. I had a relationship with my boyfriend that was very much like the one in the trailer. I loved him, but I was jealous of his relationship with the girl he was dating. I was always jealous of him, but I could never tell anyone because I didn’t have the words to describe it.
It took me two years to admit to myself that I was in a relationship that I was jealous of. Even though I was always very angry at the person I was in love with, I didn’t want anyone to find out about it. I didnt have a word to describe it- I didn’t have the vocabulary to explain it. That meant I had to be very careful about who I told, how much I told, and when I told.