This is a great quote to help you to identify when you are lying to yourself. If you are telling yourself “I am worthy” or “I am a good person” then you are lying to yourself. If you are telling yourself you are not a good person then you are lying to yourself.
This is one of my favorite quotes because it reveals that we are all so very complicated. We are all in this together though. As long as we are each others’ conscience then none of us care about what anyone else thinks of us. Some of the most valuable relationships we have are in our relationship with God or with our family. When we lie to ourselves, we are actually lying to God. It’s a mistake to think that only we can control our own lives.
In fact, you can be your own best friend. You aren’t perfect but you sure as hell can make things better for yourself.
To break free from your own self-deceptions, you have to acknowledge your own worth. You have to understand that you are special and beautiful and worth something. You are deserving of love and respect and happiness. If you don’t feel worthy, you can’t deserve it. If you don’t feel loved, you can’t deserve love. If you don’t feel respected, you can’t deserve respect.
And that’s what makes it so hard. We all want what we can’t have.
It is human nature to want things we cant have. We all want to be loved. We all want to be respected. We all want to be happy. All we have to do is take the time to really understand our own worth, our own worthiness and then we will be able to love ourselves more and more.
We all have something against us, and it’s not just our own stuff we dislike. We are the products of our own actions and the actions of those around us. What we do and what we say and what we do not say are all choices we make. So when we don’t want to do something, that’s when we can start to feel unlovable. But when that happens, it’s time to start thinking about what we can do to make ourselves feel loved.
This is why signs that you’re unlovable are the signs of a problem. When you don’t act in a way that makes you feel loved, it’s time to get your life back on track. But when that happens, it’s time to start thinking about what you can do to make yourself more loving.
This is exactly what happened for Colt Vahn. He has been on Deathloop’s island for awhile with no memory of why he was there. So he is literally a prisoner in his own body, and we see him waking up to find himself in a cell with no memory of his previous life and no idea how to get out the moment anyone tries to contact him. But one person in particular, one person who seems to have the power to bring him back to life, appears.