It’s kind of like pregnancy and the idea of suicide. Both can be terrifying, and each is an act of courage that you can’t explain away. A friend of mine who’s been through a lot of them said she had a lot of the same feelings as you, so you won’t be surprised when I say that our feelings about pregnancy and suicide are pretty similar.
When you get pregnant the idea of suicide is that you need to act fast and act out in the most drastic way available. This is because you have no idea if you’ll be able to get through this. It’s not that you know you’ll die before you give birth, but that you might not be able to, and that you might not be able to handle the pain and the fear you’ll feel when you are able to give birth.
To put it simple, I think that pregnancy can be a blessing or a curse. Most of us find ourselves in a state of constant, if not intense, pain and fear. This is probably because we take for granted how much our lives are about to change. We never think about the other, how much time would pass before the new baby would be born, or what would happen to the new baby if the first one didn’t survive the loss of the mother.
I think that pregnancy is a natural and human response to loss, to uncertainty, and to change. You feel things you did not know you could feel. Sometimes we can’t tell if a pregnancy is right for us.
Our baby is almost certainly going to be a girl, and she is a survivor. We must be sure that she is strong, healthy, and healthy enough to carry a baby. There are no guarantees that a pregnancy will bear a healthy baby.
A woman is not considered to be suicidal if she is not pregnant. We as a society have been trained to view pregnancy as a natural, normal occurrence. The last thing you want to be thinking about is how many times you have heard or seen someone say they are pregnant and you assume they were joking.
I don’t think anyone should be thinking about pregnancy that way. If you think pregnancy is something to joke about, I can assure you that you are mistaken. As a society, we have taught women to behave in a certain way, and in a society not ready to deal with sexual violence, that is a dangerous mentality.
That mentality, while I do agree that the right to choose to become pregnant is a natural right, is not the same as “sexual assault.” People who get pregnant are not being sexual assailants. They are not getting pregnant so they can take advantage of a woman who hasn’t wanted to be pregnant and have sex with someone else.
Not all sexual assaults are violent, but those that are are. The laws on rape and sexual assaults are much different from the rest of the world, especially in our country. In Europe, there is a presumption of innocence. If a person is raped, they are in no mood to lie about it. The crime is punished with a stiff fine or even a jail sentence. In most cases, these violent crimes are not reported to the police.
This isnt an issue in the United States. The crime rate is much lower than in Europe, and there are very few rapists. Why do people need to lie? The United States is a very big country, with a lot of immigrants, and the media certainly has a vested interest in this issue. But I doubt some of the more well-known and well-to-do people would lie about having been raped.